Communication is a very important skill in our life. When we talk to our family, friends, classmates, collegues, strangers, we will use different communication skills.
It’s amazing that, kids between kids, they have their own communcation skills. Last time my 5 years old cousin and my friend’s consin who is 4 came to my home, they played together and chatted. I sat next to them, this’ the first time they met, but seemed met long time ago, and they used their language to communicate, which I don’t know. Anyway they were happy.
Kids have their own language and try hard to let others know what they want, and think. They always use they limited knowledge, and words to communicate to others.
How about adult? Adult always make things messy, they know communicate is important, good and can develop or improve the relationship with each other. But they TRY NOT to do that, just hide themselves. Because of this, there’re too many misunderstanding.
Some of the people, they tried to talk to others, but they don’t know HOW to do it, they just talk but never listen, that’s why, their communication were failed. Talking, Sharing, are interative. Maybe you read many books, takes manys courses, about how to communicate well to others, but if you never try out what you read in the books, learn from the courses, those knowledges are only in your memories.
Be calm, listen carefully when you talking to other, these are the most effective and basic ways of communications.
It’s amazing that, kids between kids, they have their own communcation skills. Last time my 5 years old cousin and my friend’s consin who is 4 came to my home, they played together and chatted. I sat next to them, this’ the first time they met, but seemed met long time ago, and they used their language to communicate, which I don’t know. Anyway they were happy.
Kids have their own language and try hard to let others know what they want, and think. They always use they limited knowledge, and words to communicate to others.
How about adult? Adult always make things messy, they know communicate is important, good and can develop or improve the relationship with each other. But they TRY NOT to do that, just hide themselves. Because of this, there’re too many misunderstanding.
Some of the people, they tried to talk to others, but they don’t know HOW to do it, they just talk but never listen, that’s why, their communication were failed. Talking, Sharing, are interative. Maybe you read many books, takes manys courses, about how to communicate well to others, but if you never try out what you read in the books, learn from the courses, those knowledges are only in your memories.
Be calm, listen carefully when you talking to other, these are the most effective and basic ways of communications.
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